Hola! So things in rural Costa Rica are going well. It’s funny because the other day I called a fellow volunteer (not in my same rural community development program-- he is living in a big city doing work specifically with children and adolescents) to ask about something. It was 8pm and things in my house were winding down for the night (I tell people to never call past 8pm here because inevitably we are getting ready to go to bed/in bed). I could hear lots of noise in the background and he told me he was at a 24/7 internet café. I literally couldn’t believe it— the concept of having internet access period is now a foreign concept and internet 24 hours a day—jamàs (never)! The thing is, it’s not that I even really miss it that much (besides the urge to “google” something, but even that has been happening less and less as time goes on), I just couldn’t believe that other volunteers are having an experience that is so completely different from mine. I guess it goes to show that I’m really getting into the life here, right?! I can’t remember if I’ve mentioned it before, but my community here consists of the following:
-Catholic church
-elementary school
-community center which also serves as the high school, which means the 5 grades all have their respective class simultaneously in a single large room that is the community center (talk about having trouble concentrating!)
-cemetery
-soccer field (which has been getting a lot of use as of late from yours truly, along with the neighborhood kids)
-3 pulperias (little convenience stores, 1 of which I would describe as a pulperia-light!)

Needless to say, a 24/7 internet café will probably not be coming here anytime soon. I know I’ve said it before, but to reiterate, I really have been enjoying the much more “natural” pace of life here.

Speaking of which, yesterday I spent the morning at the high school where I have been conducting informal interviews with the students to get their opinions about the school and the town in general. I was going to go to the house of the president of the development association because he has information on statistics of the members of my town, but in the end he had to go to San Jose to do something. So as I’m heading down the hill to my house, one of my neighbors, an older woman and her youngest daughter who’s about 30, say hello and invite me to “pasear” (go pay a visit) to a family that lives way abajo (down below). I have been trying to find out more about what my town was like in the past and had heard about the couple that they were going to visit as some of the oldest people in the town and decided, why not?! Little did I know that when they said “abajo,” it was literally to the furthest house in my community. Since I go running all over the place, I thought I had been to the “end” of my community, but little did I know that the point where the road (road being a term used loosely) ends, there is a little path that continues through little streams for about 20 minutes, until you arrive at the 2 most solitary houses in my town.

When we reached our destination, I literally felt like I had gone back in time. The best way I can describe it is that it felt very ¨Little House on the Prairie¨-esque —the mother and daughter were in long skirts and aprons and had their hair tightly braided, they live in a modest house made of wood, when we arrived the daughter was outside washing clothes by hand. It really seemed like a lifestyle from a different era, which in many ways it is. It’s hard to get an idea of when people began living in my town, but from what I’ve gathered, it goes back about 3 generations, so probably around the beginning of the 20th century. The lifestyle of the family we visited is literally the epitome of self-reliance—they grow rice, beans, and vegetables, have numerous farm animals including cows that provide milk and cheese, and also have tons of fruit trees. This whole idea of self-reliance is one of the things I most admire about the majority of the families in my town--- they grow and care for the vast majority of the food they consume. I think it’s something they are very proud of, as well (and rightfully so!). So needless to say, I was really happy to have had the opportunity to see the furthest-reaching area of my community and am looking forward to returning in a few months (if not before!) to see the full-grown rice plant so I can see how the whole process works. The daughter showed me what they had planted about a month ago, but it takes a few months for it to grow enough to be picked, processed, and ready to eat—I can’t wait to see it!

On a semi-related note, in one of the PC guidebooks there is a quote on the “psychology of sitting” that I would like to share with you all:
“People in Western civilization no longer have time for each other, they have no time together, they do not share the experience of time. This explains why westerners are incapable of understanding the psychology of sitting. In villages all over the world, sitting is an important social activity. Sitting is not a ‘waste of time’ nor is it a manifestation of laziness. Sitting is having time together, time to cultivate social relations.”

I really think this epitomizes the difference between US culture, where everyone is always on the go and doing something. Here, sitting on a porch and spending time chatting with family and friends is something. It’s funny, because I feel like I never know how long is too long to just stay and hang out when I am visiting someone at their house, so after a while I usually make up some reason or another as to why I should get going. I imagine in time I will become more in tune with what the norms are for “paseando” and how to make a more graceful exit.

So tomorrow I am off to San Jose for a training on a program that I am hoping to employ with some students in the high school—it is a whole process for developing business skills in youth to prepare them for entrepreneurial opportunities. I’m really excited because I’m going to be reunited with Jenny, Heath, and Sarah and we’re all going back to our training community to spend the night with our old host families (and each other!). We haven’t seen each other since mid-May and I can’t wait to see them and catch up on everything—it’s so different now that we’re all so far away-- oh the stories we will tell!

Hope everyone has a good weekend!
Love,
Tes